kidnap my heart.

lower ur expectations of us..

Friday, August 04, 2006, ♥ at 21:24 =)

rcved an email from sm1..quite meaningful..juz nice wad i wanted to sae..

extract:

Everyone want to have high expectations and to expect that things will work out well. When you expect too much from life, when you are unrealistic and demanding, you set yourself up for disappointment and a great deal of unnecessary grief. Your expectation is that the events in your life will evolve in a certain predictable way and that people will behave according to your plans. When they don't, which is often the case, you end up stressed-out and miserable.
Often simply lowering your expectations even slightly, can make your day (and your life) seem a whole lot easier. People make mistakes and we all have bad days.
Please understand its not about lowering your standards, its referring to making room in your heart for bad moods, mistakes, errors and glitches. Instead of spending so much time being annoyed about the way things unfold, you will be able to take most of it in stride. Life and its many challenges won't get to you as much. However, no matter how hard you try, life still isn't always going to go as planned. One of the best way to deal with inevitability is to stop expecting it to be otherwise. So ease off your expectations a little, and see how much nicer your life can be. You wont be disappointed.

sometimes thgs kant b rushed into..esp when team dynamics are involved.. when u rush thgs..it mite turn out even worse..but y nt juz be abit patient..it takes time..n maybe 1 day in future u'll c e beautiful results eventually..

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